STUCK !

arghhhhH! long time with no entry / post to write. I'm stuck in the middle of worklife and myself. Sometimes you just wish that life will be easy! but the truth is... it's not so damn easy...

Everyday you interact with people. You might hang out with them because you wat to or because you don't have any choice. You might really like them or not think much of them at all. Relationships are not just about who you are "going out with" or "hooking up with". They are about the interaction you have with people every day. Your relationship might be close , supportive , stressful or really not matter to you much.

Here are some examples

- Family - you might or might not live with them ; get along with them or have massive fights ; never have met them ; or they are you best friends

- Online mates - Never seen their face but chat all the time

- TV,movie Characters or our favourite band - You probably have never met them, but you see or hear them all the time...

-School or work - You might not hang out with them if you didn't have to

-Your partner - He or shecould be you best mate or the person who gets to you most!

Think of all the people in your life. they might be people you know personally or have never met. All of these relationships hav ean effect ( good or bad ) in your life This effect can be tiny , huge or anywhere in between.

Here are some of the great things that relationships can do for you.

-Make you feel like you belong and are valued.

-increase your confidence

-provide understanding, respect, trust and care

-Support you to try out ideas, new things or discuss your opinions

-provide a safe place to be, and learn about...yourself

What do you think makes a good relationship? How does a positive relationship help you? how do you choose your relationships and why? how do you cope with relationships that you don't really want anything to do with... ?

i'll write down more about it in my next post...